Sunday, March 22, 2020

Marriage is Made in Heaven


Dear Friends,

My hope and prayer is that all of you are safe and secure and of good health of body, mind and spirit. The Session will be making some decisions in the coming days regarding holy week, but until now I will be printing my sermons and sending them out, as well as trying to record them and get them up on Facebook and our web page. (If these don’t work look for them on YouTube using the sermon title).  The Mission project is still planning to give out food on March 27 and the church officers will be checking in, now and again, to see how all of you are doing.  In the meanwhile, here is a prayer for a Pandemic that I picked up off the internet:

May we who are merely inconvenienced remember those whose lives are at stake.
May we who have no risk factors remember those most vulnerable.
May we who have the luxury of working from our house remember those who must choose between  preserving their health or making the rent.
May we who have the flexibility to care for our children when their schools close remember those who have no options.
May we who have to cancel our trips remember those who have no place to go.
May we who are losing our margin money in the tumult of the economic market remember those who have no margin at all.
May we who settle in for a quarantine at home remember those who have no home.
As fear grips our country, let us choose love. During this time when we cannot physically wrap our arms around each other, let us yet find ways to be the loving embrace of God to our neighbor. Amen. 

God’s peace and blessings be with you,            Pastor Dave


“Marriage is Made in Heaven , So is Thunder and Lightning”

Matthew 22:23-32
23The same day some Sadducees came to him, saying there is no resurrection; and they asked him a question, saying, 24“Teacher, Moses said, ‘If a man dies childless, his brother shall marry the widow, and raise up children for his brother.’ 25Now there were seven brothers among us; the first married, and died childless, leaving the widow to his brother. 26The second did the same, so also the third, down to the seventh. 27Last of all, the woman herself died. 28In the resurrection, then, whose wife of the seven will she be? For all of them had married her.” 29Jesus answered them, “You are wrong, because you know neither the scriptures nor the power of God. 30For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven. 31And as for the resurrection of the dead, have you not read what was said to you by God, 32‘I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob’? He is God not of the dead, but of the living.”
This is the word of the Lord, thanks be to God.

Years ago, I was walking through a craft fair and came upon a tent where the craftsman was making wooden signs for people’s home. One sign hanging there caught my attention. It read, “Marriage is made in heaven, but so is Thunder and Lightning!”  Which may be an appropriate way to look at today’s scripture. The scripture from Matthew’s gospel is the third encounter between Jesus and the religious authorities. In the first two the authorities asked questions of Jesus that they thought would trip him up, and in the process discredit him as a true teacher (rabbi) and leader. The first two questions dealt with issues of authority and allegiance, today the question is about scriptural interpretation. Specifically, how does Jesus understand the commandment found in  Deuteronomy 25:5,6 where it reads: When brothers reside together, and one of them dies and has no son, the wife of the deceased shall not be married outside the family to a stranger. Her husband’s brother shall go in to her, taking her in marriage, and performing the duty of a husband’s brother to her, and the firstborn whom she bears shall succeed to the name of the deceased brother, so that his name may not be blotted out of Israel” and how does this commandment impact husbands and wives when they have been resurrected.

Those asking the question think that they have presented Jesus with a trap. He will either refute the Torah (the law of Israel) or he will denounce the concept of resurrection. To deny either one of these would bring rejection and ridicule by the crowds. Or so they thought.  They present the dilemma. A woman married, her husband died, and she was left childless. Her brother-in-law in keeping with the custom marries her. He dies as well. The custom continues through five more brothers, until the widow finally dies. The religious leaders then ask, “In the resurrection, then, whose wife of the seven will she be?”  When confronted with the first two questions, Jesus asked a question back to his interrogators, but in this case he lays it straight and declares that his questioners are wrong. They are wrong because they did not understand scripture or the power of God.

How could it be that these learned men of faith did not understand the two key elements of faith—God and the scriptures that support our belief in God?  If we look closely at the text from Deuteronomy that speaks about levirate marriage, the text has little connection to matters regarding the resurrection. The levirate law practice was put into place to guarantee two things. First, if would promote care for the widow and the orphan upon the death of the woman’s husband. It was a matter of justice. The widow would not have to fear for her welfare if her brother-in-law took her in. Secondly, it would protect the name of her husband. It would guarantee that the property would stay within the family of the deceased husband that an inheritance could be given to any future generation, and it would also stop the widow from selling off the property in order to survive. It was a very practical law for the welfare of the community.  It has nothing to do with resurrection. Jesus knew that and I suspect the Sadducees did too.

Jesus’ second claim, that the Sadducees knew little about the power of God is a bit more difficult to explain.  According to the ancient writings the historian Josephus and the book of The Acts of the Apostles, the Sadducees rejected the idea of life after death as well as the notion of spirits or angels. In other words they come into this discussion under a pretense of believing in something that they as a body have long negated. Which means in matters related to the idea of resurrection they have already removed themselves from the discussion.
Jesus then reminds him that when the people of Israel speak of their ancestors, the ancient patriarchs and matriarchs, they speak of them in a manner of them still being alive and present with God, as in “I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob? This declaration is made in the present, not the past, tense.
Add to this the words of the prophet Isaiah, “Your dead shall live, their corpses[a] shall rise. O dwellers in the dust, awake and sing for joy! For your dew is a radiant dew, and the earth will give birth to those long dead.” (Is. 26:19) and Jesus had pretty well proved his assertion about them and their lack of faith and knowledge.

I don’t think the point of this confrontation is for Jesus to win the argument. Nor do I think he is trying to make more enemies as he pretty much has the Scribes, Pharisees, Herodians and now the Sadducees all working against him. I believe Jesus wanted to help his disciples keep their hearts and minds in the promise of the resurrection. I am pretty sure that Jesus is not trying to argue for or against marriage now or in the resurrected life.  What Jesus knows is that in just three days he will be arrested, tortured and executed. He knows that he is going to the grave and his disciples faith will be tested like it had never been before. They had come to Jerusalem full of hope and dreams for the restoration of Israel. They had come to see Jesus take his place on the royal throne of their ancestor King David. They had prayed for and hoped for a new life for them and for the people of Israel. And then they would be confronted by death: a death so incredibly out of their control, a death that they could not stop, that they could not avoid.  The death of their dear friend, their teacher, the healer, their master and Lord, Jesus would grip them with a pain so deep that it would be near impossible to hope and believe in the resurrection no matter how many times Jesus told them he would rise. If you add to this the immense amount of fear that what happened to Jesus could happen to them as one of his followers we can easily understand Jesus wanting to lift up the power of God that is ever present and in the midst of them, that power of God that says no matter what happens, I am still the Lord of life, and you will see life again.


I share this because this is the first Lent when Jesus is not walking that lonesome road alone. The whole world is walking with him as we wrestle with the pandemic of Covid-19. The news seems to state that things will get worse before they get better as the number of those infected and affected by the virus grows day by day. It is just normal for us to fear in the face of over that which we feel so powerless.  In this state we try to control that which we can and so we might find ourselves buying way more toilet paper and Lysol then we ever thought we would need. In our anger over this powerlessness it is also natural to look for a culprit, someone to blame for how uneasy we feel. Like those disciples we want to scream out, we want to point a finger, and yet all we can do is seclude ourselves in our own upper rooms—filled with our doubts and despair. 

We though are the resurrection people. God is not god of the dead, but God of the living. Even in the midst of this tragedy that will have long term effect on everything from our hygiene to our economics there is reason to hope—in fact there may even be reason to sing. Father Richard Hendrick OFM shares his thoughts in his poem,

“Lockdown”

Yes there is fear.
Yes there is isolation.
Yes there is panic buying,
Yes there is sickness.
Yes there is even death.
But,
They that in Wuhan after so many years of noise
You can hear the birds again.
They say that after a few weeks of quiet
The sky is no longer thick with fumes
But blue and grey and clear.
They say that in the streets of Assisi
People are singing to each other
Across the empty squares,
Keeping their windows open
So that those who are alone
May hear the sounds of family around them.
They say that a hotel in the West of Ireland
Is offering free meals and delivery to the housebound.
Today a young woman I know
Is busy spreading fliers with her number
Through the neighborhood
So that seniors may have someone to call on.
Today, churches, synagogues, mosques and temples
Are preparing to welcome and shelter the homeless, the sick, the weary.
All over the world people are slowing down
and reflecting
All over the world people are looking at their neighbors
In a new way.
All over the world people are waking up to a new reality…
To how small we really are.
To how little control we really have
To what really matters.
To Love.
So we pray and we remember that
Yes there is fear…
But there does not have to be hate.
Yes there is isolation…
But there does not have to be loneliness.
Yes there is panic buying…
But there doesn’t have to be selfishness.
Yes there is sickness…
But there doesn’t need to be sickness of the soul.
Yes there is even death…
But there can always be a rebirth of love
Wake to the choices you make as to how to live now.
Today, breathe.
Listen, behind the factory noises of your panic
The birds are singing.
The sky is clearing.
Spring is coming.
And we are always encompassed by Love.
Open the windows of your soul,
And though we may not be able
To touch across the empty square…
Sing!


May the God of Love and Mercy hold all of us in these times of fear and anxiety and touch all our hearts with the hope and the power of the resurrection through our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.




Where Do We Go From Here?



Pastor Dave

Dear Family and Friends of Linden Presbyterian Church,

The Session met on Friday evening to discuss our life together as a congregation during the current Covid-19/Corona Virus outbreak. It was agreed that we do not want to be over reacting to the events of this day, but that we should err on the side of caution as regards the gathering of people for the events associated with often with church life.

It was determined that effective today, March 14, 2020 we would cease all meetings and gatherings at the church for a period of 2 weeks, including worship the next two Sundays, March 15 and 22. There will be no meetings of any church boards, no Bible Study and no outside groups using the building during this time.  The Session will convene on Monday, March 23 to discuss future actions.
We are looking for ways to post this Sunday’s sermon and prayers online. Keep checking back to these pages for more information.

During this time the office will be open its usual hours. Please contact us if you have a pastoral emergency or just want to talk.  There will be daily postings on the web-page and Facebook page on ways we can continue to care for ourselves and others during this difficult time. The Mission Food Bank will continue to offer emergency food bags and are looking at ways to handle our end of the month distribution.

In times of anxiety, it is information that we want more than anything else. But sometimes too much information can weigh us down in hopelessness and raise up our levels of stress. Beloved of God, here are a few things you can do to get through these times.

If you don’t have a set time of the day for prayer and scripture, try to make one so that you might center your hearts and minds in God. Pastor Dave hope to be posting a daily reading and meditation beginning on Monday.

Limit your TV and computer time so that you are not on information overload.
Take a walk outside if only for a few minutes.
Listen to music.
Get some form of exercise or practice some form of mindful movement such as yoga or Tai Chi.
Call a friend and check in with them.
Read a book or a comic strip. Find a mystery or a comedy that will lighten your heart or divert your attention for a little while.


Finally friends, if you need more information to keep you informed about things you can do to combat the virus, her

https://www.nj.gov/health/cd/documents/topics/NCOV/COVID-19-PreparetoSelfIsolate.pdf
https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/community/home/cleaning-disinfection.html

You are all in our prayers during this time.  On behalf of the Session at LPC,

Pastor Dave